Caely Judy is passionate about teaching the next generation about Christ. With a degree in psychology and a minor in art, she has worked with children for several years. She is an artist who uses her work to spread joy and hope.
I am a creature of habit. I enjoy my routine; I have my favorite restaurants, stores, and coffee shops. As the holidays roll around, I excitedly prepare for traditions with loved ones that continue year to year. I believe it’s the familiarity that brings me comfort. As I have gotten older, I continually reflect on what exactly it is about Christmas that brings everyone so much joy. Prayerfully, it is celebrating Christ’s birth. Another could be knowing that the people you love the most are going to be there to make memories.
Perhaps you are like me, and this year didn’t go the way that you had planned. Maybe you are entering this holiday season without someone close to you. This season will be my first without any of my grandparents. As I look around at my young nieces and nephews, it is such an overwhelming feeling to be able to experience the excitement of their first Christmases. On the other hand, if I am being honest, it can become overwhelming to think about the family members that aren’t here. Change is hard, and grief can be so isolating.
Christ’s birth reminds us that this world is not our home. The pain we experience here can feel as if it will continue forever. Yet God promises in Isaiah 25 and Revelation 21 to wipe every tear from our eyes. Share with Him your hurt and frustrations. One thing that I found comforting this year is hearing other people’s stories. It is reassuring to know that there are others going through similar circumstances. I would also encourage anyone struggling to seek professional help. Christian counselors that are trained in the field can offer vital support.
If you are not going through a difficult time, I would encourage you to step in to offer support to those who are. We are all going to experience the peaks and valleys of this life. If you are at your peak, God has given you an opportunity to love someone through their valley. Be the hands and feet to a hurting neighbor this Christmas season.
If you’re struggling during this season, just know you’re not alone. The weight of this world is heavy, but cling to the hope of Christ. I pray that you find comfort in Psalms 147:3 “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”
If you need help, consider reaching out to the following resources:
- www.griefshare.org
- National Depression Hotline – (866) 629-4564
- Suicide & Life Crisis Hotline – dial 988
- National Domestic Violence Hotline – (800) 799-7233
